THE 25 BEST SEX TOYS FOR COUPLES ...
THE 25 BEST SEX TOYS FOR COUPLES IN 2024
The gift of better orgasms? Yes, please.
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Looking to up the ante in the bedroom and make your date nights hotter than ever? The best sex toys for couples—things like innovative wearable vibrators, silky blindfolds, and other accessories—can make everything you do between the sheets feel more scintillating and give your beloved something they’ll always remember: the gift of better orgasms.
Whether you’re looking to bust out from the usual routine altogether or just introduce a few new toys that’ll make things a little more exciting, these sex toys are a sure-fire way to make your partner’s heart—and maybe a few other things—swell with delight. I should know: I spent a few years as a freelancer covering sex tech and have tested a ton of products, including many that are great to use with a partner to improve your sex life. Here are 25 of the best sex toys for couples that you need to try together, starting with the most popular items out now.
1. This wearable vibrator that everyone’s obsessed with
With this toy, you'll stay connected no matter how far apart you end up being.
For couples who want more, the We-Vibe Sync can deliver on every level. Designed to be worn during sex (although you can use it for solo play, too), this ergonomic C-shaped vibrator can be adjusted so it fits your body perfectly and can deliver simultaneous stimulation to the clitoris and G-spot, respectively. Equipped with 10 speeds and different vibration modes, this silicone toy can be controlled through buttons on the device itself, or through the remote it comes with, or via We-Vibe’s We Connect app. With the app, you can even time certain pulsations to music, which makes for a more sensual experience with couples' sex. The app also works from anywhere in the world that you have WiFi, so for long-distance couples, this could be a sweet way to stay connected even if you can’t see each other in person right now.
2. This super-powerful wand vibrator that some say is better than the Hitachi
Hitachi Magic Wands aren't the only game in town, you know.
Are you team Hitachi Magic Wand or team Le Wand? The truth is, it’s just like Cardi B says, you can get ’em both and you don’t gotta choose. But if you’ve never even tried Le Wand before, you owe it to yourself to give this luxury wand vibrator a go. It packs all the power you’d expect from a classic wand, but unlike the Hitachi—which notoriously only comes with two speeds: intense and really intense—with Le Wand, you get 10 speeds plus 20 patterns to choose from within each speed. If you want something that’s not as bulky to use with your partner, the Le Wand Petite is smaller, USB-rechargeable, and has a silicone head that’s silky-soft to the touch.
3. The silicone lube to end all silicone lubricants
Lightweight yet so effective, Uberlube is one of the best silicone lubes out there.
Silicone lubricants are a huge no-no if you’re using silicone-based toys because they’ll lead to overall deterioration in the material itself. However, outside of toy play, silicone lubricants are phenomenal because they last forever, have a higher viscosity (meaning they’re extra slippery), and can help reduce chafing and friction during sex. Uberlube is one of the most popular on Amazon and gets raves from reviewers, who say it’s never tacky or drying and keeps areas feeling ultra-nice. In my experience, it’s well worth the slightly higher cost as a standard bottle can last me up to six months, plus the lube itself feels thinner and more lightweight on my skin than any other silicone lubricant that I’ve tried.
4. This stunning necklace that’s actually a bullet vibrator
This bullet vibe is hidden in plain sight—and that's part of the fun.
Crave made a big splash at CES 2020 with the Vesper Touch and Tease rings, which are expected to launch sometime this summer. But the most recognizable product from Crave is still the Vesper Massager Necklace, which strikes the perfect balance between function and fashion. It’s a bullet vibrator hidden in plain sight—at first glance, most people would probably just take it for an ordinary silver-plated, stainless steel necklace. Whether you’re shopping with a partner or for a gift that’ll really surprise her, this multi-speed, waterproof vibrator is a clever choice.
5. A dildo that feels like the next best thing
The Mustang is one of the most popular models from Vixen Creations.
I have a confession to make: Vixen Creations’ dildos ruined me for almost every other dildo out there. These toys—like the fabulous Mustang pictured here—are made with something the brand calls VixSkin, a type of dual-density silicone. What that means is that their dildos have a firm yet squishy feel, so they’re girthy but not too malleable. In short, they feel shockingly close to the real thing. Mixed and molded by hand, these exquisite dildos are good for everything, whether it be solo play, fun between couples, or even pegging. The Mustang in particular comes with a harness-friendly base, although other models offer different bases that may be better suited for other types of play.
6. This weird-but-brilliant hands-free couples’ vibrator
The Eva II might look weird, but trust us—it really works.
Marketed as the world’s first hands-free couples’ vibrator, the Eva was designed to close the so-called pleasure gap that Dame Products founders Alexandra Fine and Janet Lieberman say prevents cisgender women from having the same kind of fun in the bedroom as their male partners. Because approximately 37 percent of American women need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm, the Eva—and its new and improved model, the Eva II—delivers a vital assist. The clever device has two little silicone “hands,” which tuck under the labia so the toy stays directly on top of the clitoris, even during sex. The Eva II has more impressive staying power than its predecessor, as it can run for up to five hours off a single charge. It also operates at a whisper-quiet volume, which makes it one of the more discreet toys to have in your arsenal.
Get the Dame Products Eva II Personal Couples Massager
7. A vibrating c-ring that’ll give you the best of both worlds
This ultra-soft c-ring can help prolong and intensify orgasms in an amazing way.
The TOR 2 from LELO is one of those sex toys for couples that just keeps on giving. Made from ultra-soft silicone with a smooth, matte finish, this vibrating c-ring has six settings and can take you both even higher than usual. In addition, it’s waterproof and rechargeable. Although it’s designed to be worn around a penis, there are other creative ways to put this c-ring to work, like putting it around your finger and using it to stimulate your partner along other parts of their body.
Another reason to strongly consider this toy is that it’s covered under LELO’s impressive one-year warranty and 10-year guarantee on all products, meaning if your c-ring (or any other sex tech item you purchase from the company) malfunctions within a year, you can get a new one, and within a decade, you’re entitled to a 50 percent discount on a new item from the company’s site. It’s one of the best product guarantees in the business and is a big part of why LELO is such a dominant brand in the industry.
8. An ultra-bendy vibrator that hits every angle
You can easily contort this vibe to hit any angle.
Love using a vibrator with your partner but wish you had one that you could bend and contort in ways that a normal vibe just doesn’t go? Let me introduce you to your new favorite invention, the MysteryVibe Crescendo. This award-winning vibrator is singular in that it can bend to fit any body shape and can stimulate erogenous zones you never even knew about, thanks to its six powerful built-in motors. This toy syncs up with the MysteryVibe app, which you can use it to set your own or your partner’s vibration patterns. It’s also waterproof, so it could add something extra to your next bathtime.
9. A silky blindfold for all kinds of sensory play
A blindfold this can help heighten your senses to an insane degree.
A relaxing massage, a kiss, or perhaps a little exploration around your partner’s erogenous zones to see what really sets them off—all foreplay is good foreplay, right? Add a sexy blindfold to the mix and it’s like someone turned the heat up to sweltering levels. You’d be amazed what a soft blindfold like this one can do to heighten the intensity of almost any encounter you’re having with your lover. Just close your eyes, lean back, and let this little $8 blindfold and your imagination do the rest.
10. This insanely popular oral sex stimulator that really works
You'll get plenty of satisfaction wherever the Satisfyer is concerned.
The Satisfyer Pro 2 is a game changer for anyone who needs clitoral stimulation to get off. When you position it over a clitoris, it creates little pressure waves and a soft-yet-significant suction effect, so it simulates the feel of oral sex. The Satisfyer, which has more than 6,000 glowing reviews on Amazon, offers 11 speeds so you can find the right one to suit your needs. Before this toy, I never believed multiple orgasms were possible—they seemed like a myth, to be honest—but the Satisfyer Pro 2 proved that not only are they not fiction, but accessible with the push of a button.
11. These too-cute butt plugs that’ll make your heart melt
These plugs are a must-have for Valentine's Day
Who says you can only celebrate your valentine on one day of the year? Shaped to look just like an old-fashioned candy heart, this silicone butt plug from Adam & Eve is one of the sweetest things you can buy for bae, even when it isn't Valentine's Day. It also has a heart-shaped base that’s stamped with a flirty little message, so if you're trying to start a conversation about backdoor play, these cute plugs are a cheeky way to start. You can choose from three color combinations, and as this plug is just three inches in insertable length, it’s not an intimidating size for backdoor beginners.
12. This thick, water-based lubricant that’s ideal for backdoor play
This water-based lubrication offers a necessary buffer for rougher forms of play.
There’s no one right lube out there, but if you’re looking for a long-lasting, water-based lubricant that’s good for anal sex and other other forms of play where extra lubrication is needed, Sutil Rich is the go-to option. Formulated with lotus root and horny goat weed (yes, really), this lube provides a thick, cushiony barrier that makes it ideal for areas like the anus that don’t naturally self-lubricate. It’s also paraben- and glycerin-free, which is always something to look out for when shopping for water-based lubricants, as cheaper ones usually are formulated with glycerin and likely to leave behind a tacky residue. Speaking from personal experience, Sutil Rich is one of the least-tacky water-based lubes I’ve tried. Like all water-based lubes, you may need to reapply it more often than you would a silicone lubricant, but Sutil Rich is compatible with silicone toys, which is another perk.
13. A crystal wand with a huge following on Instagram
These exquisite crystal wands are a good alternative for anyone who enjoys glass or steel toys.
The first time I saw this crystal wand from Chakrubs on Instagram, I was sold. Made from exquisite natural stone, this wand is a romantic gift for your love and offers the fullness and hardness that someone who’s really into metal or glass dildos will enjoy. I have it in rose quartz and it’s even more beautiful in person than I thought it’d be, but other popular options include amethyst and clear quartz. If you or your giftee follows founder Vanessa Cuccia on Instagram, you’ll get helpful tips for how to care for and use the wand in all kinds of exciting new ways.
14. A vibrating thong so discreet you can wear it in public
Some classic moves just never go out of style, and this is one of them.
Imagine yourself at a five-star restaurant, staring across a table into your sweetie’s eyes, when suddenly you feel a little buzz. That’s not the flutter of true love rising up from your belly and making your heart skip a beat, though—it’s this thong and vibe combo from OhMiBod. Sexy, powerful, and oh-so-fun, this USB-rechargeable toy has two modes and comes with a remote, so your partner can control it from across the room while you sit back and enjoy the ride—and try not to make too much of a scene.
15. This innovative sex furniture that’ll blend right in with your decor
For those with chronic pain, this sex furniture from Liberator is a game changer.
Sex furniture—and specifically, pillows, wedges, or full-scale ramps—can be helpful in the bedroom, especially for couples or individuals who have mobility challenges. Certain pieces can provide a crucial layer of support, comfort, and leverage during intimacy that’s invaluable. When it comes to shopping for the best sex furniture, the brand Liberator is the only way to go. Although the company offers a vast array of furniture and positioning pillows, my personal favorite is the ultra-discreet Flip Ramp: It looks like a comfy ottoman when it’s not in use and doesn’t take up the kind of space that other pieces of sex furniture do. However, when it’s open, it folds out into a ramp, allowing for deeper penetration, especially in from-behind positions. I have one at home and, nope, no one ever knows what it really is unless I tell them.
16. This palm-sized vibrator that covers all the bases
The Mimic Plus is remarkably easy to charge and has plenty of staying power.
Shaped just like a manta ray, this curvy little silicone toy will fit right in the palm of your hand and packs a powerful punch. Ideal for anyone who prefers vibrators that are more “rumbly” (like a cross between a wand and a bullet vibe), the Mimic Plus from Clandestine Devices works for solo or couple play and can rest right over the mons area, so it hits both the clitoris and labia. The settings are easy to explore and set, and it’s built for convenient magnetic charging. With its LED light at the base and soft, contoured design, the Mimic Plus is a little toy that makes a big impression.
Get the Clandestine Devices Mimic Plus
17. A set of low-temperature candles to heat things up
These low-temperature candles are a good way to foray into wax play.
Wax play isn’t for everyone, but for couples who want to venture into such kinky pursuits, these low-temperature candles can fire up your V-Day plans. They burn at about 125 degrees Fahrenheit, so you’ll feel a sting to start, but the wax oil is formulated so it won’t singe skin, which makes them much safer to use than ordinary candles. Reviewers say these are large, last for a while, and make wax play feel fun and safe for beginners.
18. A lipstick-style bullet vibrator that’ll change your life
Discreet yet powerful, this lipstick bullet vibe is a popular pick.
We-Vibe is synonymous with high-end sex tech, but the company also makes some awesome classic toys, too, like the Tango. This lipstick-style bullet vibe offers a fun spin on a familiar favorite. It has eight settings, a sculpted tip for clitoral stimulation, and because of how compact this plastic bullet is, it’s excellent for travel or any kind of subtle public play. It’s also easily rechargeable via USB. Some users have called it straight-up life-changing.
19. A really good strap-on harness
The Aslan Jaguar and the SpareParts HardWear Joque are two of the most popular harnesses out there now.
For couples into pegging or any kind of consensual power exchange, it’s so crucial to find a strap-on harness that works for the giver’s body type. Good harnesses don’t come cheap, but the SpareParts Joque and the Aslan Jaguar are two of the all-time best and worth the investment if you’re shopping for something that can be worn on the regular.
Of the two harnesses, the Joque is probably the better choice for most wearers, as it’s comfy, has a Spandex elastic belt, and a neat silicone o-ring that stretches, so unlike with most harnesses, there’s no need to keep swapping out rings as you level up in dildo size.
While the Joque is a fabulous option, I’m personally obsessed with the Aslan Jaguar harness because it has fully adjustable straps that are nice to wear over clothes or directly on bare skin, and because it’s genuine leather, it really complements a more BDSM-geared aesthetic. Either way you go, these harnesses are stellar.
20. The most memorable DIY project you’ll ever have
The funniest part about this kit? It actually makes a pretty decent toy, too.
This easy-to-use kit (which I swear isn’t a joke) comes with everything you need to make a silicone replica of your partner’s penis, plus a little bullet vibrator for clitoral stimulation. It may seem a little wacky to some, but if your partner is always traveling or the two of you are gearing up to go long distance due to work or school, it can be a thoughtful way to stay connected. You may opt for realistic colors that match their penis or spice things up with hot pink, neon, or another one of the funky colors available. One thing’s for sure, making it together will be a date night you and your partner never forget.
21. These vibrating anal beads that are great on the go
These beads are fun way to edge into backdoor play.
Easing into backdoor play? These vibrating anal beads from B-Vibe are a must-try regardless of your skill level, and small enough that they won’t scare off total newbies. They have six vibration patterns and 15 intensity levels, thanks to two powerful motors, which help give them that added oomph. With a wireless remote included, partners can control the toy from across the room, which makes it feel even more versatile. The beads also come with a cute traveling case with locking functionality, for extra security when you’ve got them with you on the go.
22. This pack-and-play dildo unlike anything else
For realistic gender expression, this pack-n-play toy delivers.
Packers help create the appearance of bulge and are important for anyone searching for realistic gender expression. The Shilo is a two-in-one silicone toy from New York Toy Collective that functions as both a packer and a dildo: When worn with a harness, it can make a person feel like it’s part of them. It's soft enough that it delivers that squeezability you want for packing but still firm enough that it can be extended and used for play. The Shilo is also a terrific choice for G-spot and prostate stimulation, which adds to its versatility.
23. This set of affordable bed restraints
This beginner kit can help you add a little more "50 Shades" to your life.
Looking to get kinky on a budget? This bed restraint kit from Utimi comes with all the stuff you’ll need to turn your bedroom into a veritable pleasure palace for the evening (or the rest of your life). Designed to fit all size beds, this set comes with adjustable nylon straps, handcuffs, and shackles, as well as a blindfold and a tickler. The fluffy lining inside the handcuffs and shackles helps prevent irritation, which is important if you’re planning more involved restraint scenes together. Reviewers say this a fabulous purchase for the price.
Get the Utimi Fetish Bed Restraint Kit at Amazon for $19.99
24. A double dildo that brings couples closer together
You can share more than just a kiss thanks to this double-ended toy.
This double dildo strap-on set from Fetish Fantasy has something for both of you. Designed for shared pleasure, it comes with a stretchy harness that lets one partner take control. As for the dildo, it’s 12 inches in length, but—before you faint—remember it’s intended to be shared, making each end just 6 inches long (give or take). The advantage of using a double dildo like this versus a traditional strap-on is that both partners may enjoy simultaneous penetration. With this model, both shafts are slightly curved and textured, so both the wearer and receiver are bound to enjoy themselves.
ative condoms for a barely-there feel
These condoms from LELO are unlike anything else out there.
Safe sex is really sexy, and condoms come in handy for more than just penetrative sex between partners. They can also be useful for certain types of play with toys, like pegging and other types of anal stimulation. These condoms from LELO feel unbelievable and are unlike any other condom. The webbing on the inside helps to decrease the likelihood of rips and tears, while the condom itself feels incredibly lightweight. Inspired by graphene’s hexagonal structure, the natural latex is comprised of 350 small hexagons with super-thin panels—all this is to say, they are engineered for a barely-there feel.
Thank you Shayna Murphy