Reimagining Intimacy with Strap-Ons
Sexual intimacy is ever-evolving, and Strap-Ons are a powerful tool in that evolution. Whether for role-play, gender-affirming dynamics, erectile support, or simply the joy of exploring new sensations, Strap-Ons help couples expand their erotic repertoire. In particular, Hollow Strap-Ons and Pegging gear invite conversations about trust, power, and physical connection.
We’ll unpack what Strap-Ons are, why they matter for couples, how to choose them (especially for pegging), and important safety, communication, and care considerations. We’ll also spotlight several Strap-Ons available on Condom-USA.com, to help ground theory in real options.
What Is a Strap-On — And Why Couples Use Them
A Strap-On is a dildo (or similar penetrative toy) designed to be worn with a harness (or sometimes without one) so that one partner can penetrate another.
Why couples choose Strap-Ons:
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Pegging & Anal Play: For many couples, “pegging”—where typically a woman or non-penis partner penetrates a man anally—is a way to explore power dynamics, vulnerability, and new physical sensations.
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Erectile Dysfunction (ED) Support: Hollow Strap-owns (more on them below) can help partners with erectile challenges participate fully in sex without pressure to perform.
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Gender Affirmation & Role Play: Strap-Ons enable role flexibility: they allow one partner to embody a more “phallus-presenting” role, regardless of anatomy.
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Mutual Pleasure: Some harnesses or dildos are shaped to stimulate both partners (e.g., with external textures, or double-ended designs).
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Novelty & Variety: Simply put, Strap-Ons add playfulness, novelty, and a way for couples to diversify their sexual experiences.

Hollow Strap-Ons: What They Are & Why They Matter
Definition & Purpose
Hollow Strap-Ons are dildos with a cavity inside that fits over an existing penis or partial erection. They serve multiple purposes:
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Extension: They can add girth or length.
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Erectile Support: For someone who has erectile dysfunction or performance anxiety, a hollow strap-on offers a fully rigid shaft to penetrate with, without depending on a full erection.
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Comfort & Confidence: They can help restore confidence in sexual performance, enabling intimacy even when an erection is difficult.
Material & Safety
Most Hollow Strap-Ons are made from body-safe materials like silicone or PVC (check carefully). Non-porous surfaces are easier to clean, which is especially important for shared use.
Harness Compatibility
Some hollow dildos come with harness kits; others are just the hollow shaft, and you’ll need a compatible harness. When selecting a harness, look for adjustable straps, secure o-rings, and materials that feel safe and comfortable on the skin. Condom-USA’s strap-on harness collection emphasizes those qualities. Condom USA
Pegging: Dynamics, Communication & Techniques
Pegging is more than just physical penetration. It often involves emotional, psychological, and relational dimensions: trust, power exchange, vulnerability. For many couples, pegging is a way to explore new roles and to deepen their connection.
Communication is key. Before trying pegging, it’s essential to have an open, non-judgmental conversation. Some helpful prompts:
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What are our goals? (Pleasure? Role play? Intimacy?)
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What do we feel comfortable with? (Depth, speed, position)
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What safety boundaries do we need? (Signals, stop words, lube use)
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Are we okay with switching or alternating?
Starting Slow
Especially for beginners, it's wise to begin with:
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A smaller, more slender dildo.
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Generous amounts of water-based lubricant.
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Positions that allow control (spooning, missionary, or receiver controlling the depth).
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Time for warm-up — using fingers, gradual insertion, or a butt plug may help.
Advanced Play
As comfort grows, couples might experiment with:
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Larger or more realistic dildos.
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Different harness types (harness kits with o-rings, jockstraps, or underwear harnesses).
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Straps with better stability for thrusting.
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Incorporating external stimulation (balls, perineum, prostate).
Spotlight: Strap-Ons from Condom-USA.com
To make this more concrete, here are several strap-on products from Condom-USA.com that are especially relevant for hollow play and pegging.
The Size Matters 2 in. Erection 28X Realistic Remote Vibrating Silicone Sheath
- With 4 speeds and 7 patterns of vibration that you control with this battery operated remote. Use the remote from up to 32 feet away!
- Hollow Body with Solid Tip and Ball Ring: Insert your penis into the hollow sheath. At the end of the sheath is a 2 inch tip that adds length along with the girth of the sheath to your shaft. At the base of the sheath is a stretchy ring to wrap around your balls and help keep the sheath in place.
- Fully Adjustable Harness: Use the PU leather straps and metal belt buckles to adjust for the perfect fit around the waist and thighs.
- Realistic Looking Premium Silicone: silky, smooth, premium silicone dildo. With a veiny shaft and a realistic looking head, Use only with water-based lubricants.
- Rechargeable and Waterproof: Use the USB cable to recharge the sheath. Replace batteries to the remote as needed. Rated as IPX7 waterproof, this sheath can be submerged under water for up to 30 minutes or taken into the shower.
- Measurements: HARNESS: Waist adjusts up to 48 inches in circumference. Thighs adjust from 13 inches to 27.5 inches in length. DILDO: Insertable length: 6.3 inches. Widest insertable diameter: 1.7 inches. Inner depth: 5.5 inches.
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Note: Remote distance of up to 32 ft, requires 1xAAA battery (not included).
Selopa “Our First” Hollow Strap-On
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Thermoplastic elastomer (TPE), phthalate- and latex-free
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Insertable length is about 5.5 inches; total height ~6.41 in.
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Harness straps are stretchy and adjustable for waist + legs.
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Waterproof and submersible
Hollow Silicone Dildo Strap-On – Black
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Made of premium, body-safe silicone for a silky, realistic feel.
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Overall length is 10.1 in, with 6 in of shaft, and hollow depth ~4.5 in.
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“Cum-thru” tip to allow internal climax.
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The design includes a ball strap that hugs the scrotum, which helps with stability and sensation.
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Great for users who want a more premium material (silicone) and a more generous size.
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A pegging kit (harness + 5-in dildo), assembled for beginners or more experienced peggers
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Harness is 4-way adjustable, fitting up to 60-inch hips.
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The slender dildo is beginner-friendly — less intimidating, more comfortable to insert.
Because it's a kit, it's a convenient all-in-one starter set.
Some things you may want to consider, Hollow Strap Ons and Strap Ons in general are a work in progress, there is still much work to be done to make them feel more natural. But at least there is something and that is a start. Strap Ons have come a long way, as have all sex toys. Keep your expectations realistic and you may have to play around a bit with the product and your partner to figure out what feels best for everyone.
Hollow Strap Ons help support erection issues and can extend the penis, some may even have a slightly realistic feeling, but again, there is room for improvement. Cleaning a hollow strap on can be tricky but must be done, there are toy cleaners that can be sprayed into the hollow strap on to disinfect. Always be sure to be clean before putting on the hollow strap on and let it air dry after cleaning it. Some of the Hollow Strap Ons feel heavy or ridged, it may take some trial and error before finding the perfect one. We try to look for Silicone Hollow Strap Ons, unfortunately there are not many on the market, but again new products are coming out every day.
Dildos that are not hollow are another option, they do offer more stability, this would be another option for those that may have difficulty keeping an erection. Regular dildos also have more options available and there are many superior quality silicone ones to choose from as well.
This brings us to Double Ended Strapless Dildos, these can be regular non vibrating or vibrating types. And there are many silicone, glass and other high-quality materials available. These add stimulation for both partners. They also allow for creative play and are great for switching roles. They offer closer body contact. They are more complex and require negotiation and a certain comfort level. And they tend to be a little more expensive, since you are actually purchasing two toys, with more than likely 2 motors.
Best Practices for Safe, Enjoyable Strap-On Play
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Lubrication: Use plenty of lube. For anal pegging, a thick, long-lasting water-based lube is a good starting point.
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Condom Use: Even though these are toys, using a condom on the dildo (especially when switching partners or orifices) is a smart hygiene practice.
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Cleaning: Clean both harness and dildo after every session. For hollow dildos, rinse thoroughly and allow the interior to dry completely (tip: store them so the opening faces downward).
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Storage: Store in a cool, dry place. Keep latex, silicone, and TPE toys separately to avoid material degradation.
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Communication & Aftercare: After play, check in with your partner. Ask how they felt, what worked, what didn’t, and if they’d like to try something different next time.
Common Myths & Misconceptions
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“Pegging is only for kinky or non-hetero couples.” False. Pegging is for any couple who wants to explore power, pleasure, or new forms of penetration.
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“Hollow Strap-Ons mean someone’s penis isn’t enough.” Not necessarily: it’s about enhancement, not inadequacy. Many couples use them for role play or novelty, not just ED.
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“Strap-Ons are complicated.” While shopping for the right harness or dildo can feel overwhelming, starting with a simple kit (like the Saffron Pegging Kit) or a beginner-sized strap-on can make things very accessible.
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“Cleaning is a pain.” Yes, hollow toys demand more drying effort, but with the right storage they’re very manageable.
Real Couples, Real Experiences
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Many couples report that strap-on play deepens emotional intimacy, not just physical sensation.
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For some men with ED, hollow Strap-Ons restore confidence and reduce performance pressure.
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For others, pegging becomes a regular part of role play or power exchange, not just “that one thing we tried once.”
Reddit threads (e.g., r/actuallesbians, r/AskLesbians) reveal a variety of experiences:
“We have a small one that she’s used on me a few times … now she has one that she uses for other reasons.”-Reddit
“I think you just explained the reason why I like straps more. … It’s a little gentler imo.” -Reddit
These perspectives highlight that Strap-Ons can be deeply personal and emotionally meaningful, not just physical toys.
Building a More Connected, Explorative Sex Life
Strap-Ons, especially Hollow Ones and Pegging Kits, offer couples a powerful toolkit for exploration. They can help address physical challenges, open new role dynamics, and foster deeper trust. By choosing the right product (like those from Condom-USA.com), communicating openly, and prioritizing safety and care, couples can make their strap-on journey a rewarding, pleasurable, and affirming part of their sexual relationship.




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